Veterans Day: A Father's Reflection

By Murphy Belding

“I thank my God every time I remember you.”
-Philippians 1:3

Veterans Day celebrates the service of all U.S. military veterans. It is a day when we solemnly remember the sacrifices made by the multitudes of brave men and women serving in our armed forces.

Have you ever wondered why it’s so easy to take this day for granted? For those of us who have never served in the military, it’s easy to overlook this holiday and lose sight of those who have bled to preserve the freedoms we enjoy. Think about it: as Americans, we are free to express our opinions, live the lifestyle we want, say what we want, and worship God openly without facing oppression or hostility. We have opportunities and choices that few people on earth enjoy. Is it crazy to consider that our nation is one of the most blessed in human history?

I have been guilty in the past of under-appreciating the sacrifices of our military, but my mindset has changed in the past three years. For me, it’s become personal. One of my precious daughters has chosen to place her life in harm’s way in order to keep our country safe. She currently serves in the U.S. Navy as a 3rd Class Petty Officer. Even right now, she’s serving with her squadron in a foreign land, defending our freedom and values. Those of us with family in the military know that we must continually pray for their safety. And though my daughter is not yet a veteran, I am moved by the privilege to honor all those who have served before her to make this country free.

A few years ago during clinical training as a hospital chaplain, I experienced one of the most emotionally charged events of my life. As a chaplaincy exercise to understand how to administer pastoral care, our instructor displayed 75 photos of men and woman fresh off the battlefield. These pictures captured the traumatic and devastating pain and suffering of wounded soldiers and civilians. Let me just say, that devastation will turn your stomach. I will never forget the look on the faces of the caregivers who were tending to the wounded.

We owe a debt of honor and respect to those who have served throughout the U.S. and the world. That chaplaincy training helped me see “behind the flag” of how men and women of our military pay a high price for our freedom. Wherever you are on November 11, please take a moment to thank our veterans for their faithful service.

"Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!"
-Patrick Henry—March 23, 1775